We’ve all been there. Her phone’s sitting right there, and you start thinking, “Maybe just a quick look…”

But don’t do it. Seriously, don’t.

You think checking her phone is gonna give you peace of mind. It won’t.

Even if you find nothing, you’ll still be suspicious.

And if you do find something?

Well, congrats, now you’ve got a whole new mess to deal with.

Trust is key.

If you’re going through her phone, that’s not trust, that’s paranoia.

You both need to respect each other’s privacy.

If you’re always looking over each other’s shoulders, that’s not a relationship, that’s surveillance.

Of course, it’s fine if she’s helping you with directions while you're driving or changing the music for the kids.

But beyond that? Respect each other’s space.

Instead of snooping, just talk to her.

Lay it out there.

It’s a lot better than scrolling through texts trying to play detective.

And if you can’t trust her without checking, the issue’s bigger than her phone.

Bottom line: Don’t check her phone.

She shouldn’t check yours either.

Respect goes both ways.